The sky up high
Using RBA
Excited to go home
Mom and her smile..hehehe
Left Brunei around noon and arrived at Kuching Sarawak around 4 afternoon. My aunt picked us up and we went straight to my usu's house. Rested for awhile and after listening to stories what had happened to grandma my mom was so mad and pissed off with one her sister which is an adopted one who is responsible of taking care of grandma so we went straight to the hospital.
There she is lying with her eyes close
Mom with her tears looking at grandma's condition
Me and grandma , i cried while i kissed her forehead could not believe how much I missed her so much. But i put a smile on my face and think positively that she would be alright amin..
Mummy , grandma and me ( we love u nenek )
After meeting grandma we were listening to the doctor about grandma's condition according to my usu boy , she was very very healthy when she stayed with them during the last Hari Raya and she was able to climb up the stairs on her own. Then after that day she stayed at my other aunt's house Tini, thats when the time grandma suffered. She was all alone in her room no one to talk with being controlled , not being well fed , not even changing her diapers , not even giving her a bath and even wore her old old clothes. According to the doctor, her body was dehydrated and was starved , not fed for 5 days and didn't pass motion for 18 days. Could you just imagine 18 freaking days. How could such a human being do to such old woman who called herself her MOTHER????? Not only that before this incident happen grandma fell down in the bathroom and her forehead bled , and guess what she waited the blood to dry off and then she sends her to the hospital.
My mom was sooooo upset with her because she promised my mom that she would take care of grandma but then this happen and she plans to take grandma to my usu's place. I too as a grandchild was pissed of. Mom was waiting for my uncle Abu to come back to Kuching also , he came all the way to Bintulu to see grandma which is also his mother. When he came and saw grandma he too was unhappy with grandma's condition. Grandma had to be fed through the tube instead through her mouth due she can't swallow her food, she would vomit it out. And she had to use urine bag because she can't feel if she wants to pass urine or not. I felt sorry for grandma , but me and her other grandchildren could not interfere the elders problems but due to Tini's children joined their mom and defended her as if she is innocent and also KURANG AJAR , we lost respect and we always thought that durang ani alim tau pasal ugama but no. Kerana dorang kurang ajar arah orang tua that's why all our thoughts about them and respect..are GONE... sorry to say but in realt life they are not our family ties as in darah daging so sedarlah sikit..
Ok enough about that, guess what after weeks in Kuching , drama here and there mummy and her other siblings won the fight against Tini, so finally grandma stayed @ usu's house where people can come to see her, because she loves the crowds not staying alone in the room lying ampai2 cematu saja. Alhamdulillah grandma discharged from the hospital and back at usu's house and she said "MERDEKA" yup that's what she said and she also sang her song which i couldn't catch it hehe something like "kung kung asuk nyalak" something like that hehe how cute. But she is still using her tube for feeding. Foods, she was given Bubur ,and sometimes susu ENSURE for her to drink.
Before going home i told her , please be strong , mudahan cepat sembuh so that u can see your granddaughter sanding here in Kuching , make sure you can walk , eat correctly and remember i love u soo much and lastly forgive me for everything.
My mom was sooooo upset with her because she promised my mom that she would take care of grandma but then this happen and she plans to take grandma to my usu's place. I too as a grandchild was pissed of. Mom was waiting for my uncle Abu to come back to Kuching also , he came all the way to Bintulu to see grandma which is also his mother. When he came and saw grandma he too was unhappy with grandma's condition. Grandma had to be fed through the tube instead through her mouth due she can't swallow her food, she would vomit it out. And she had to use urine bag because she can't feel if she wants to pass urine or not. I felt sorry for grandma , but me and her other grandchildren could not interfere the elders problems but due to Tini's children joined their mom and defended her as if she is innocent and also KURANG AJAR , we lost respect and we always thought that durang ani alim tau pasal ugama but no. Kerana dorang kurang ajar arah orang tua that's why all our thoughts about them and respect..are GONE... sorry to say but in realt life they are not our family ties as in darah daging so sedarlah sikit..
Ok enough about that, guess what after weeks in Kuching , drama here and there mummy and her other siblings won the fight against Tini, so finally grandma stayed @ usu's house where people can come to see her, because she loves the crowds not staying alone in the room lying ampai2 cematu saja. Alhamdulillah grandma discharged from the hospital and back at usu's house and she said "MERDEKA" yup that's what she said and she also sang her song which i couldn't catch it hehe something like "kung kung asuk nyalak" something like that hehe how cute. But she is still using her tube for feeding. Foods, she was given Bubur ,and sometimes susu ENSURE for her to drink.
Before going home i told her , please be strong , mudahan cepat sembuh so that u can see your granddaughter sanding here in Kuching , make sure you can walk , eat correctly and remember i love u soo much and lastly forgive me for everything.
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